Rage mostly and some love



Starting 2026 with a bang. I promised you a valentine blog, this is a late version but let’s get into this fools charade shall we?

Connections. Just let that word sink in. Connections. Why is it so hard to sustain a connection? Everyone essentially has a network that could be made up of family, friends and acquaintances. This network is supposed to sustain you.  Look out for you and be there for you. The concept of connections, community and cliques have diminished to the point of isolation. The world glorifies being lonely, in your bubble unaware of everything else, forcing people to give up being social. So what happens when you do that? When you are stuck in cycles of isolation? You become an emotionally underdeveloped cave man with a smooth brain. This mostly shows up when it comes to relationships you share with a partner/close friend. At least that is my assumption. 

Hot Take: Online dating has ruined a lot. Honestly, being online has ruined a lot. Imagine a buffet every single day of your life. You are exposed to so much, you see so much and you see so many variations of the same thing. Isn't it frustrating? You see the same image over and over again shoved down your throat. The same goes for dating, you see so much. Too much. Every single person you see is a rip off of the other. So I am going to group em all, feel free to comment if you fit a particular category or if I have left any out.

Type: Performative Male. 

Think bird that is puffing out its chest that is exactly this guy. He performs and performs, giving Broadway on a budget. This type has a few categories. 

  • Wears pearl necklaces, has curly hair and a very mysterious social media presence. 

  • Red pill on steroids. Believes in selective aspects of being conservative and religious. Hand picks whatever suits their notions and movie choices. 

  • Made up a personality between Batman, Bateman and Brad Pitt. 

  • Mostly think he is exclusive, but he is avoidant, emotionally elusive and has a smooth brain. 

  • Reads self help books, watches anime, plays 2 distinctive musical instruments, goes to therapy, and is still a man. Performatively. 

Type: Sporty/Stoner

He likes mostly 3 sports, cricket, football, and basketball. A deviant of this loves all 3 and also Formula 1 racing. He is either always playing chess on his phone, or sends excessive snaps of himself playing said sport/at the gym. He puts quite literally everything before you. Sporty comes first. Always. This type always has the same 3 vices and at this point it is just boring. Between the MMA and using dark humor to mask the void inside whilst simultaneously throwing liquor and smoke at the problem this category is a unique mix of athleticism and narcissism. 

Type: Nonchalant

His energy is nonchalant. But it is as nonchalant as someone selling pirated tickets outside of a theatre. It gives auction house. SOLD to the ‘bidder’. Too nonchalant for his own good. This type is also caught between the first girl he ever fell in love with and the first girl who has loved him (HIS MOM) and his whole life revolves finding the balance between the two. 

Type: Red Pill 

  • Incel in muscle clothing. 

  • Religious, depending on what works for him. 

  • Serious parental issues. 

  • Did I mention Incel? 

Now let us get into women. There are only 2 types, pick me’s and girl’s girls. 

Pick me’s: 

Let’s just say it. We hate them. It's gotta be said. They pick the wrong things, pick the wrong side of things and they make everything harder for all the other women. They have managed to ruin years of hard work and struggle by calling it Trad wife, making red pillers feel important for a whole 30 seconds. 

Girl’s Girls are literal angels. I have nothing to say other than I am sending kisses to all of you. 

Now my dearest Sunshine, this may not be my usual writing, but there is too much happening in the world for me to be quiet. I hope you feel the same way. Being insipid and quiet is not the way to live this life. Feel those emotions, get angry at the problem and fight for the truth and justice. Choose wisely, learn everything you can about your country and state. Fight fearlessly and pray for leaders who actually care. This is the world your future children and future you will inhabit and live in. Be a part of the solution, not the problem. 


Lots of love, hugs and rage 

-XOXO

Jess

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