Peanut butter and Jess

  My dearest Sunshine! How have you been? Has 2024 bought you good things? dead mice? Or does it feel like the same old life? Today’s topic, embracing change. Change is scary. Change is also pretty awesome. Based on how you decide to see it. Of late I have been thoroughly enjoying the sanctity of friendship. A lot of times I find myself yearning for a sort of love and companionship, unaware of what I exactly want, I end up chasing what I do not need.             I do deeply believe that there is an emotion attached to friendship that is shared between people of the same gender. Do not get me wrong, but there is a sort of divinity when it’s a table filled with women, laughing, sipping on drinks, eating food in dainty bites and intently listening to each other. This past week I had the chance to witness women, mothers, their daughters all sit around a table, enjoying food laughing their woes away completely unaware of the w...

  My dearest sunflower How are you? How has the new year been treating you?   I wish for the best of health, strength, wisdom and enrichment this year. Its been a week into the New Year, I have already tapped out. Just kidding. I don’t think the last year ended. It feels like its still dragging on, maybe its just me. I have embraced this year and all its endless possibility with a hint of cynicism and a lot of tea. I have decided to focus more on the reality of things, rather than hoping on the bigger picture. While I do agree the need to focus on the bigger picture as whole, I have come to enjoy the smaller, more mundane things in life. 2023 has introduced me to some really fascinating and beautiful souls, and I have decided to enrich myself by basking in their presence and feeling the love, pulling in all that knowledge and just honestly enjoying the vibes. 2023 was the year where my friends and I grew close and also apart, we spent every moment, memorizing the jokes, ...